The Psychology of Travel
The original name of this blog was “The Psychology of Travel”.
The psychology of travel is a means of preparing mentally for independent travel. I think it’s the most important thing to do before embarking on a long journey. It took me years and I wrote about it in my first travel book, 9 Months in Tibet.
When travelling for up to a year, maybe on your own, you need to prepare psychologically. This is very different from “normal” travelling when you know exactly where you’re going and for how long. When you go on holiday, or a short trip, you don’t need to make any internal changes to the way you approach life.
I developed the term after getting back from a trip to Thailand and India and suffering what is known as “culture shock”. Thailand had been so exotic and India so amazing that getting back to a grim and freezing homeland (Scotland) was really depressing. I also wanted to avoid what happened to me after that trip which was to become a pub bore on travelling in Asia, and that’s why I started writing.
Phases of Independent Travel
My intention with this article is to advise you how to prepare psychologically for the three phases of independent travel:
- Before – Mentally preparing for your journey into the unknown;
- During – The attitudes you need when you’re on the road;
- After – How to deal with the shock of coming home after a long time in somewhere totally different.
Each one of these phases is critical for the independent traveller: if you don’t learn how to “let go” of things at home you’ll never get away; if you don’t develop the right attitude towards people you’ll meet on the road you risk getting ripped off ; and if you don’t prepare for the psychological shock of coming home you could end up in a depression.
If you want to travel independently you’ll need to develop a series of skills that will help you to cruise through these challenges, but like any new skills you need to practice them.
When I first wanted to travel independently I had three big problems: fear, no cash and no source of inspiration. I overcame my fear by a series of near-death experiences, all described in my Tibet book; I earned cash by driving a truck (and realised this was the easiest problem to overcome) and found inspiration by reading Bruce Chatwin and Ryszard Kapuscinski.
If you need inspiration to get up and go you might like the following articles, all of which have been written for people who want to start travelling independenly.
Sources of Inspiration for future travellers
- I wrote this article – 10 Skills for Independent Travellers – for students considering a gap year, retired folk and people who feel trapped in a job.
- This one has suggestions about how to “practise”: Improve Your Travel Skills on Weekends and Holidays
- This is an important skill: How to Adapt to Foreign Cultures
- And the big question: Did Cannabis Help me Write and Travel?
- There’s a lot of really bad travel writing around (and travel journalism is just PR for the travel industry), but this writer is an exception: What’s the best travel book?
- And finally, a skill I think is essential for a great experience: The Beauty of Getting Lost
Get in Touch
I set up this blog to inspire people to travel independently and then write about it. I’m keen to write more articles about the psychological issues around travel, so I’d be very grateful if you would suggest a topic you’d like me to write about.
If you run a blog or publication and want an article (or interview) about the psychology of travel just get in touch.
The best way to contact me is to leave a comment under one of my articles. I approve them all manually, it adds to what’s written in the article and I’d really appreciate it. My email address is wolfemurray [at] gmail.com, my phone number is +44 747 138 1973 and if you want to send me a card or letter (the best way of communicating) my current address is Whittington’s Boathouse, River Thames, Reading, RG4 8DH, UK
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Rupert Wolfe Murray