Getting lost in an unknown location is central to my approach to travel. If you have a sense of faith (“everything’s going to be okay”) and are not liable to panic, getting lost can result in discovering wonderful things and meeting new people.
There’s also a delicious irony in the fact that after all that planning, saving and struggling to get away the best thing you can do when you arrive is get lost. This is what management gurus would say is “counter-intuitive” (i.e. it doesn’t make sense) and I’d like to explain.
I called this article The Beauty of Getting Lost because, in my experience, the most incredible places I found on my travels were by chance, often the result of wandering aimlessly or being lost. In my book 9 Months in Tibet I describe various places I came across by chance. When I stumbled across an incredible building or landscape that I didn’t know about I would feel as if I had personally discovered it, resulting in a great sense of achievement.
I used to feel sorry for those poor souls who would turn up at an ancient monument with their guidebooks and a pencil, ticking off the location on their checklist. Many travelers never feel that wonderful sense of mystery and surprise that is, for me, the best part of travel, by researching too much and making lists of places to visit – and then feeling frustrated that they couldn’t visit everywhere on their list. I like to arrive in a location in a state of ignorance and I don’t want to know what the main sites are – I plan to get lost, ask around and see where fate takes me.
But getting lost is actually a lot harder than you might think. On the one hand all you have to do is wander aimlessly in a new city, without a map, and – hey presto – you’re lost. The problem is that we tend to cling to our plans, our maps, our checklists and above all our fears – of getting lost, being alone, getting robbed – and it’s very hard to let go of these props.
After all we’ve grown up in a society where good planning is one of the highest attributes – surely an essential requirement for independent travel. Any long journey does require these skills, especially for the first part – getting away – but once you get to where you’re going you can “let go” as the Buddhists say and go out without a map.
The best way to practice the art of getting lost is to wander aimlessly in your own city: just head out in a particular direction and walk until you get lost. If you walk for an hour in your city you will surely come across some interesting places. I remember doing this in Romania and finding a vast rubbish dump the size of a hill and a monastery that that had been built 500 years ago and immediately destroyed by the Turks who considered it too much like a fortress. You can see a picture of my discovery here.
I’d be really interested to know your experiences of getting lost. Please add a comment below.
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Interesting perspective. I should follow your advice and start wandering in my country from time to time.
I do understand the joy, mystery and surprise of getting lost, wandering about and discovering something interesting by yourself. And I also know how nice it is to meet people in non-touristic areas, discuss with the locals about their culture and enjoy their stories or food.
When I travel abroad, I don’t like to travel in groups, during the high season or to turn up at a famous attraction just because everybody goes there. I prefer to plan my journeys well in advance and read about interesting places hiding far from the beaten track, because I want to spend more time in those locations instead of spending too much time looking for them.
I suppose I would need a lot of time at disposal to allow myself to get lost when traveling abroad and I would definitely expect some unpleasant experiences along the way. Besides, once back home, I’m sure I would feel quite annoyed to read about a special location I missed, not far from the place I was wandering. 🙂
I haven’t got lost many times and the first experience that comes into my mind was in the beautiful suburbs of Perth, Western Australia a few years ago. My husband and I missed the last bus to get us back to the hotel, we didn’t know the phone number of any taxi company, we couldn’t see a single person passing by and we had to walk for about 8 or 9 km. It was a bit strange at first but soon we started feeling excited about our “escapade” and enjoyed the scenery, the amazing sound of exotic birds and the Australian houses’ architecture. It was a beautiful experience and I can still remember that mixture of joy, excitement and freedom we felt throughout that very long walk.
Thanks so much for this really interesting view. What you say is really interesting and it makes me realise that “getting lost” is all very well when you’re young, free and single with enough money in your pocket and the ability to rough it, but as soon as you’re with a hubbie, a family or on a tight schedule the prospect of getting lost can be a real problem. I’m impressed that you were able to enjoy the experience so much when you did get lost in Perth as many people would have ended up really frustrated. Maybe you have what it takes to be a great independent traveller.
Best travel treasures are definitely to be found when you toss the guidebook and follow your nose. Love the trailblazing spirit in your post!
Thanks a lot for this really nice comment Fiona. Really appreciate it. If you’d like to write a post about your journey to Morocco, outlining what an amazing country it is, I would be delighted to publish it. Ciao…